Dad told me that one of his client's wife 'did the whole Genesis thing' and ended up with an emergency c-section after 13 hours of labour. I immediately got very defensive and said what is that suppose to mean & why is he telling me this. He said that he just feels that all of a sudden this place is now the next best thing & he doesn't know if it really is the best and safest thing to do.
I got very angry & told him that this will absolutely go my way & I was very upset & said I felt that he doesn't support my feelings and decision (which I know is not true), yada yada yada. I was carrying on a bit like only I can.
After a moment on my own and cooling down I realised that this was my red flag. After all the facts I had read and the feeling in my gut I knew that this probably wasn't the safest thing to do but I just didn't want to see it. I normally get defensive like this when I am making and impulsive & emotional decision. It never turns out to be the right decision.
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